Animals and Pressure - A Deeper Understanding

  • By Karen Nowak
  • 05 Oct, 2015

I was recently asked "do we place pressure on our animals." 

What follows is a feline perspective  from a cat named Satchmo who is in spirit form. To read more from Satchmo go to Purr-ls of Wisdom.
Satchmo: That is not an easy question to answer. There are many forms of pressure and an equal amount of ways in which it is processed by all beings.

What each human’s definition and understanding of pressure is, is the filter through which the question is asked. Also how it is heard and processed.

I am only answering from my latest experience as a cat.

I felt pressure from not understanding my world during the early years of my life. Uncertainty brought stress. Not being understood, not only by others, but by myself, was difficult.

As you see “pressure” has many meanings. Pressure comes from within as well as outside sources.

As I say pretty regularly, it’s not the same for everyone.

Emotional Pressure

Did my human place pressure on me emotionally? No.

She never asked nor believed I was responsible for her emotions. She grew while we were together to understand how deeply important it was that she was responsible for her own emotions. Therefore she never placed the pressure on me to carry them for her.

What I mean by that is she didn’t believe that my being with her or not would change what she was responsible for in her self.

Of course my leaving was hard for her. She grieved my departure and our separation.

Should you feel your life is dependent on another being , there is no judgment on feeling as if you will “die” without the animal you are so deeply committed too.

You are in pain.

Your mutual experiences are your own and not another's to understand or agree with. There is no right or wrong. Love yourself as well as the other through it all. Your feelings are your feelings they are yours alone.

That is what is important

It is always up to the animal how they feel about pressure and stresses.

We are all here to experience our own unique journey and the many facets of our emotions and the pressure that being in body brings. We all grow.

The Pressure To Stay

Animals may feel your desire for them to stay. Again that is part of the individual journey. A catalyst for growth.

Ultimately we can not force another to stay. It is always a choice made for different reasons.

Each agreement is unique to the individuals in the relationship.

Humans experience a great deal of pressure from daily life that I as a cat did not experience. Living with Karen I was aware of her emotions. I also knew they weren’t mine.

Did I have empathy? Yes. That is different than my believing what was hers was mine to carry. This was our agreement. It doesn't mean I didn't offer my affection to help and support her.

Did I feel her stresses? Yes. Did I choose to take them on for her? No. Again, that was our individual experience. Our choice to experience this way.


There Are Many Forms of Pressure

There is pressure living on earth. Again it is individual understanding and what we do with the resulting stress that contributes to our experience.

Loving ourselves and coming from a place of love in our interactions with others, along with remaining in a state of non-judgment in our interactions with self and others, paves the way to individual wholeness.

I know. Quite a mouthful. Take time to digest this one. If you choose too.

My hope is that you have a greater understanding, from a feline perspective, of a not so simple question about placing pressure on your cat anyway.
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I was living in WoodstockValley, CT when I received the call from the PWD Rescue that they had a female they wanted to place that had “issues,” I didn’t let it deter me. My other PWD had personality to spare and wefelt he would like a companion,as our other dog was very old.
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physical beings. Traditional medicine addresses physical symptoms. Alternative modalities encompass the mental and emotional aspects that present themselves in the body as imbalances, known as diseases.
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When I was asked that question I thought back to the death my horse, Chris, to find the answer.

Her death had left me emotionally devastated. I wasn’t aware of all she had been in my life. Without conditions. The hurt seemed stronger than losing humans I had been close to. It wasn’t until the loss of my parents, that I was able to experience the difference.

Only then could I understand it was judgments I made, and the perspective I took that kept me in emotional pain about the difference.

Chris and I had come together at a pivotal time of personal growth and change. No human knew how insecure I felt on the inside during that time of my life.

I matured in many ways on her back. She had my heart and supported me, as I matured into an adult with a federal job and a mortgage.

I became more confident in many areas of my life, from riding her. I trusted her with my heart and life. She knew me in ways no human could. When on her back our energy fields become one. I could never hide my feelings from her, she always knew what my heart didn’t always want my head to know. Chris knew things about me no human could see. She judged none of it.
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If you have ever had an animal that went missing,even for a few minutes, you have experienced the many emotions that take over.
Finding lost animals is wrought with fear, anxiety, panic and lack of control.

If the animal has escaped to go out on a jaunt it could include joy on their side not on yours. There are as many variables, emotions, and situations as there are animals.

We as the human know the inherent dangers of what could happen. They on the other hand, such as in the case of a Beagle, may be just following a scent. Something they were bred to do, unaware of the dangers that might surround them.
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Understanding their new life has come at their own pace. Life changed dramatically, the day they were surrendered to the shelter in St Maries ID. That day did not make them victims.
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Thousands of years ago, cats were worshipped as gods. Cats have never forgotten this.
— Anonymous

Owners of dogs have noticed that, if you provide a dog with food, water, shelter and affection, they will think you are god. Whereas owners of cats are compelled to realize that, if you provide a cat with food, water, shelter and affection, they draw the conclusion that they are gods.
―Christopher Hitchens, The Portable Atheist: Essential Readings for the Nonbeliever
By Karen Nowak 20 May, 2016

Some will say this is a faery tale, but being about a very real feline, who shall we say does not embody the demure attributes of a faery, It, is simply, a Tale of a Tail.

Charlie, the main feline of this tail, lived with my aunt for many years. Coming in a long line of very large yellow cats my aunt had in her life, all named Charlie, he was of indeterminate age in the records. The Charlie this tale is about was the last my aunt would have on this earth. . My matante and Charlie lived together for many years, always sharing their daily meals. My aunt holding the food in her hand, and Charlie obligingly eating it. They shared an interesting diet. what my Aunt ate, Charlie ate. The selection was large and varied, donuts to water chestnuts, could be found on the menu. Their favorite delectable delight, unanimously voted upon, was most assuredly pepperoni. Hardly a balanced diet for a cat. But both were full and happy, Charlie not being your normal cat. After all, this feline, ALWAYS got what he wanted. Charles Persistent T Cat being his full name.

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These were the words of wisdom that my dog Moxie, originally known as Noni, spoke to me well into our relationship. Moxie was a
Portuguese Water Dog (PWD). What set her apart was that she was born with everything the breed didn’t want. She was improperly coated, had short legs, and a unique head. Some felt she was an embarrassment to the breed and should be euthanized. 

I was living in WoodstockValley, CT when I received the call from the PWD Rescue that they had a female they wanted to place that had “issues,” I didn’t let it deter me. My other PWD had personality to spare and wefelt he would like a companion,as our other dog was very old.
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What language do you use with yourself throughout your life? Is it one based in uncertainty and imperfection? Or, ever growing trust in self?

Wanting and Choosing are Two Different Things
Universal energy does not see wanting something as choosing something. It responds to “wanting” by remaining in a state of wanting.

Implied Additional Meaning
Filling your request with negative connotations will not get you what you desire.

Statements such as “Universe, I don’t want to live in lack. I don’t want be alone, anymore. I am tired of being sick; I don’t want to feel this way anymore” hold implied meaning of what you believe to be true. There is no room for more than one meaning. Your belief, and the feeling attached to it, will always trump, win, and create your reality.
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Do you find yourself saying any of these things or variations thereof when you feel stuck? Often not even knowing the reason.

" Oh, I feel so stuck"
I am so stuck"
I'm stuck and I can't seem to move out of being stuck"

And a million other variations on STUCK, IMMOVABLE energy.
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