Grieving and More . . .

  • By Karen Nowak
  • 21 Sep, 2015

An Animal's Perspective From Spirit

Grieving and More . . .
The following blog comes from a continuing conversation with a cat, in spirit, named Satchmo. Along with her human, in body, Karen Noel. 

How is grieving different for you now that you are in spirit?

Satchmo: I knew it was okay for my heart to feel all it was feeling.

Loving Karen Noel, the “lightness of being”, and the freedom of what I was now able to feel without restraint, was liberating.

In what way?

I could feel unbridled love. Not only for Karen, but for myself. And, for choosing to experience such a gift.

All is bathed in, and felt from, a love that surpasses anything I knew on earth.

In this “lightness of being” I processed without judgment.

What you should know.

Don’t think for a minute that we don’t miss you.

We now see you clearer than you see yourself and love you that much deeper for it.

Many of the thoughts and feelings you were unable to express we felt. And we loved you.

When you think we don’t know what is going on in your life, and therefor ours, we do. And we love you.

Often we have to interpret, when we are with you in body, not always getting it right.

There was then and is now, no judgement on how we live with you.

My experience comes from a life lived that held expressed love.

A life were the human holds no self-love was not mine, this time around.

What is common to all in spirit is arriving at a state of unconditional love for self and the humans we were involved with.

The process to get there is unique to the experience.

The time it takes is unimportant. Time as you know it on earth, is not restraining here.

Holding Us Back

Can, and do we, hold you back from moving on? Do we affect your process of grieving in spirit?

Satchmo: I will answer the second question first. No. Karen did not have the ability to do that. The choices were all mine in how I processed my grieving.

Now for the first question. Can and do you hold us back?

You can not force us to stay. We have free will. As we had on earth. the difference is now we remember and live it.

We may choose to stay to help ease the transition for both ourselves and the human.

Any reason we stay is always our choice to make.

The human can cling to us and we can choose to stay and help them find there way through the grieving.

There is no judgment on what happens. Or, what the process looks like.

In Spirit

We feel and experience love unrestrained.

We are immersed in divine love, deeply and profoundly, upon entering into spirit. We open and embrace it.

In the physical we have access to, and are surrounded by, divine love. We all have individual reasons why we block it, do not remember it, or live unaware of it.

If we stay earth bound without a body to complete or work something out, it is our choice.

It may take us awhile to embrace remembering it is a choice. It may take a bit to feel divine love at its fullest when we are not quite in either realm.

But we will and we do.

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My hope and intention is to share how incorporating both allopathic veterinary care and other alternative modalities saved us both.

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When I was asked that question I thought back to the death my horse, Chris, to find the answer.

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I matured in many ways on her back. She had my heart and supported me, as I matured into an adult with a federal job and a mortgage.

I became more confident in many areas of my life, from riding her. I trusted her with my heart and life. She knew me in ways no human could. When on her back our energy fields become one. I could never hide my feelings from her, she always knew what my heart didn’t always want my head to know. Chris knew things about me no human could see. She judged none of it.
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Finding lost animals is wrought with fear, anxiety, panic and lack of control.

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